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My Unexpected Induction and Unplanned C-Section Story

I walked into my 37-week prenatal appointment expecting to be back home in time for my afternoon of work meetings. Less than 24 hours later, I was holding my newborn son in my arms.

Like many first-time moms, I had spent months imagining how labor might begin. Maybe my water would break dramatically in the middle of the night; maybe my husband would time my contractions from the comfort of home before heading to the hospital with carefully packed bags and nervous excitement. I never anticipated that a routine doctor’s appointment would suddenly become our son’s birthday. 

Here’s the story of my unexpected induction, unplanned C-section, and the eventful day that every quick decision we made prioritized our son’s safety. 

If you’re anxiously waiting at the hospital for an unexpected induction or C-section, this post is for you. (Spoiler alert: I remember when I was pregnant, I was already so scared that I only had the headspace for positive birth stories. I promise this one is positive.)

A Routine Appointment That Was Anything But Routine

My IVF pregnancy continued to progress normally until a routine prenatal appointment at 37 weeks and 3 days. During my placement scan, the ultrasound tech we’d become familiar with was quiet for the first time. Since my pregnancy was flagged as “high risk,” we’d gotten used to more frequent ultrasounds, hearing cheerful measurements and watching our little boy wiggle around on the screen. This silence immediately felt different. My husband asked if something was wrong, and she said she was concerned that our baby wasn’t moving as much as usual. My eyes immediately welled up with tears, fearing the worst. 

Upon reviewing the ultrasound tech’s notes, our OBGYN diagnosed my baby with Intrauterine Growth Restriction (IUGR). We were immediately escorted to the Labor & Delivery unit where my baby and I were closely monitored. My blood pressure spiked a few times, but my baby’s heartbeat remained strong, which was such a relief. Due to his growth being restricted and my high blood pressure, the doctor suggested we go ahead and induce labor. My husband and I were shocked by this unexpected turn of events, but we kept reiterating to the medical team that we would do whatever it took to keep our baby safe. 

Adapting to Our New Birth Plan and Inducing Labor

As soon as I consented to the induction, my husband rushed home to pack our things and take our pup to his doggie daycare facility. When he got back, I had been admitted to a spacious birth suite with a lovely view of Denver and the Front Range. I called my business partner and talked her through my open client projects so nobody would be left hanging in my absence.

I received the first round of labor induction medication around 3:30PM. Things were feeling anticlimactic, as labor progressed slowly at first. Even though I knew I was in labor, it still didn’t feel real. Between bouncing on the labor ball, eating takeout, and joking with my husband, it almost felt like we were simply waiting for permission to become parents.

A few hours later, the doctor inserted a device to manually dilate my cervix, which was quite uncomfortable…but my husband held my hand and helped me breathe through it. I then received additional medication to move labor forward. The contractions started to become pretty painful, and thinking we had a long road ahead, I requested a dose of Fentanyl to take the edge off. 

Our Birth Plan Changes Once Again

Around midnight, the nurses rushed in when my baby’s heartbeat suddenly took a big drop. They carefully guided me through changing positions on the hospital bed. My husband and I were so worried about the baby, but fortunately his heartbeat returned to normal. The nurses said I should continue resting, but if it happened again, there may be a change of plans. 

About an hour later, it happened again, and they gave me another medication to stop labor. Our doctor drove in from her home to speak with us, saying she was concerned that our baby may not be able to tolerate active labor, and there were still many hours to go. She advised us that a C-section would be the safest way to bring our baby into the world, and we agreed. The team quickly prepped me for surgery, and my husband was given scrubs so he could be in the operating room as well. The whole experience was surreal, and we took our last photo together before becoming parents, all suited up for the operating room. 

Meeting Our Son via C-Section

I felt strangely calm on the operating table as the anesthesiologist administered my spinal tap. Once I confirmed I wasn’t able to feel pain or temperature sensations, they brought my husband in to stay by my side. I knew I wouldn’t feel pain during the surgery, but I was surprised by how much I could feel…It was the weirdest sensation feeling the surgeon’s hands inside my abdomen, and having my whole body jerked around as they maneuvered my baby through the small incision area. (My husband later joked that it looked like an exorcism.) My husband and I locked eyes and breathed together as the surgery progressed. After just a few minutes, we heard our son cry for the first time, and one of the surgeons said, “Happy birthday!”

It’s funny how two ordinary words can instantly divide your life into a before and an after. 

They briefly held him above the surgery curtain so we could see, then immediately took him over to the warming table to clean him up. My husband was able to go see him right away while the doctors began stitching me up. He kept coming back to the operating table to check on me and give me updates on how our son was doing. Finally, after about 10 minutes, they put our baby on my chest for the first time. The anesthesiologist kindly took our first family photo together, capturing the best moment of my life. 

Letting go of our birth plan didn’t mean losing my birth experience.

For months, I imagined the story of how our son would enter the world, but almost none of it happened the way I expected. There was no peaceful laboring at home, and no carefully timed departure with everything packed and checked off my list. Instead, motherhood began on what I thought would be an ordinary Wednesday morning.

When I first found out I was going to be induced, and later ended up needing a C-section, I felt a little disappointed. Since we required so much medical intervention to conceive, I was looking forward to having a birth with minimal medical intervention. But after this experience, I realized that birth isn’t a performance, and that flexibility is a form of strength. 

I’m so grateful that our medical team recognized the signs that our son needed to arrive sooner than expected. (We later learned that during the C-section, they discovered the umbilical cord was wrapped around his little body, so the surgery was absolutely the right call.) Our birth plan changed, but the goal never did: bringing him safely into the world. And I actually enjoyed my unexpected birth experience way more than I thought I would. It was definitely chaotic and scary at times, but it was also so special in its own way. It’s still my story, and I’m proud of it. 

If your own birth story takes an unexpected turn, I hope you remember this: Changing your plan doesn’t diminish your experience. Sometimes the strongest thing we moms can do is trust the people caring for us, let go of the picture we had in our minds, and choose the path that keeps our babies safe. That’s exactly what we did, and I’d make the same decisions again in a heartbeat.

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Induction and unplanned c-section story